Stop Being a Pushover: A Proven System for Achieving What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life

Josh: Men, pick this book up and run with it, you will not regret the time spent. Take your time and really try to understand the material and you’ll be surprised by its impact.

United States on Oct 26, 2023

Kindle Customer: This changed my whole way of thinking. I have been trying to change this past year but reading this gave me so much more clarity and a way to actually see what the issues were in my life.

United States on Sep 29, 2023

Hélio Costa: É um livro que aborda a necessidade dos homens desafiaram os estereótipos tradicionais de masculinidade e explorarem uma abordagem mais autêntica e quilograma de suas identidades. O livro sugere que muitos homens são socializados para serem "caras bonzinhos", o que pode levar a relacionamentos insatisfatórios, falta de assertividade e dificuldades em expressar suas próprias necessidades e desejos.

Ao desafiar esses padrões, o autor propõe que os homens possam se tornar mais conscientes de suas próprias emoções, estabelecer limites saudáveis e construir relacionamentos mais satisfatórios e autênticos. Além disso, o livro enfatiza a importância dos homens se conectarem com outras pessoas e de procurarem apoio emocional quando necessário.

Enfim, é uma obra importante que encoraja os homens a repensarem e redefinirem suas noções de masculinidade, promovendo relacionamentos mais saudáveis, autênticos e satisfatórios tanto consigo mesmo quanto com os outros.

Brazil on Sep 28, 2023

Mike Lorissaint: I don't think I've ever taken the time to review a book but after reading this book it felt like I had to. This book was amazing. The amount of introspection I did was painful at first but the more I went along and understood why a lot of my life and relationships were they way they were I started to feel release. It makes you take a long loo, at yourself and your faults. I would recommend to anyone men or women who have had childhood issues to read this as I found some things weren't exclusive to men. 100000/100 would recommend

United States on Aug 25, 2023

Pablo: I was recommended this book by a therapist. At first, I found the tittle interesting and cool in some way, but in no way did I consciously feel that it would represent me. How wrong was I. This book completely describes me. And it also came to me at a time when I was really able to look within, with total honesty. What's genius in this is that the things that happen have a completely explainable logic, are not unique to me but are only a result of human circumstances, it's not that I am just defective in some way. Therefore these things changeable by conscious work. There is a reason, a pattern, a logic. This is so comforting. Every man should read this book, at worst as general knowledge, at best, as a life saver, like in my case. Thank you Dr. Glover!

United States on Aug 07, 2023

Carlos Ortega: FUERTE recomendacion - no se dejen llevar por impresiones apresuradas debido al entorno del internet-
es tan positivo y simple como creo que pueda llegar a ser un libro sobre este tema - es como muy "puro" - solo es un breve panfleto sobre aceptarse a uno mismo - pero abordando este tema desde muchos lados y de manera que ves que realmente no entiendes el concepto de la aceptacion.

Mi concepto de la aceptacion cambio para siempre

Es un libro que no tiene "consejos" ni te dice que necesitas ser millonario y tiranico y buscar el estatus o un titulo o un oscar o una relacion para ser feliz y valer - el libro te muestra por que el enfoque en esas cosas es errado - te enseña muy convincentemente por que la falta de aceptacion de uno mismo es el unico verdadero problema - y que superar ese obstaculo es muy facil - esto es lo que hara que puedas triunfar en todo lo demas.

No hay en el libro una agenda machista ni le interesa hablar del feminismo ni de cosas politicas - es muy enfocado en lo que te esta pasando a ti como persona y eso me sorprendio y me parecio bello y refrescante - no hay ninguna incitacion a la agresividad ni a ninguna tendencia politica - tiene...

Mexico on Aug 01, 2023

wout de hoon: Dankzij dit boek heb ik geleerd welke dingen wel en niet te doen om het beter en makkelijker te maken voor mezelf. Het heeft echt mijn ogen geopend,want maakte blijkbaar steeds dezelfde fouten.
Heb er veel van geleerd op meerdere vlakken.
Echt een aanrader voor mensen die moeite hebben met voor jezelf op te komen en meer!!!!

Netherlands on Jan 31, 2023

カール: I actually couldn't continue reading it past 1/3 of the way through. I could only relate to about 20% of this book up to this point.

People have called me a "nice guy" in the past. I'm ending a 14 year marriage next month, with a toxic wife who not only expected me to do everything, but also did so as she was having an affair alongside being physically and mentally abusive. I do partly blame myself, because I did shy away from confrontations with her in the beginning, and this book rightly identifies that facet in my character. I think I've grown a lot from how I was in the beginning though.

Being someone with low self confidence, I wondered if this book could explain some things to me, or perhaps help me going forward. However, once I read the part about the boy who told his mother about damaging a table, I realised this book wasn't for me. I have always been honest in my mistakes. I remember breaking something of my aunt's when I was a kid, and yes, I hid it initially. Though, when I heard her asking if anyone had seen it, I brought it to her and admitted that I'd broken it. I've been like that my whole life. I hate lying to people. A more recent example, I forgot...

Japan on Jan 14, 2023

STKBN: Eu li as avaliações do livro e antes de comprar eu estava pensando: "Esse livro vai resolver meus problemas." Quando o doutor Robert Glover começou a descrever como é o "Nice Guy" ao invés de me identificar (como a maioria diz que acontece), o que aconteceu foi o oposto. Toda vez que o Dr Robert Glover falava sobre o Nice Guy, eu só pensava :"Eu não sou esse cara."

Eu sou o total oposto do que o livro diz, mas eu não acho que isso é um ponto negativo para o livro. Eu acho que isso é uma prova de que o livro realmente funciona, porque eu já fui um "Nice Guy".

Algo que o doutor Robert Glover recomenda para sair da síndrome de Nice Guy é passar um tempo da vida completamente sozinho.

Antes da pandemia eu era louco pelo o que as pessoas pensavam de min e queria ser o "certinho", como é normal de um Nice Guy. Mas a pandemia começou. Eu fiquei sem escola e meu irmão levou o vídeo game, ou seja, fiquei sem contato com meus amigos.

Então comecei a investir em min mesmo. Foram quase 2 anos sozinhos e foram os melhores anos da minha vida. Nesses dois anos eu só encontrei com um amigo meu na rua por acaso e mais nada. Também conversava às...

Brazil on Nov 18, 2021

Wazu: No More Mr. Nice Guy is a GREAT book However, the title is misleading, the purpose of the book is to boost confidence and help men reclaim power in their lives, it does not make men jerks. The author points out that you are the only person on this planet responsible for your needs, wants, and happiness. By boosting a man's confidence and ensuring the man's needs are met, women are naturally more attractive to these men. The greatest aphrodisiac is self-confidence.

The characteristics of "Nice Guys" are men who have difficulty setting boundaries in relationships with women and become doormats. The men often feel as helpless victims and seeing another person as the cause of problems. Many nice guys live life trying to gain approval for others.

Many nice guys did not have their needs met as boys. As a coping mechanism to try to get their needs met, they try to be nice. Later in life, Nice Guys apply the skills learned as a boy in dealing with women - by being nice - it does not work. When being nice does not work, the Nice Guys try to be even nicer.

Men need to set healthy boundaries in relationships with women. Avoiding conflicts in relationships is problematic...

United States on Jan 09, 2007