Strengthen Your Relationship: Connection, Communication, and Establishing Boundaries with Keep Your Love On

Look so good: This book is life-changing! Everyone should read this and get changed and healed

United States on Oct 21, 2023

Darcy: I learned a new way to love and keep my love on
I thought it was about married couples at the beginning but it kept getting better i kept choosing to learn morn and i think i will have to read it again for sure

God Bless Danny and Sheri

Canada on Sep 26, 2023

Andrea S.: I never write reviews ever. I read this book 1.5 years ago and have read it 3 times since. I’ve probably already bought 15 copies of this book to give to all my friends & family. The concepts in this book you start to see them everywhere, all the time. The world would be a better place if everyone read this book. Its such an easy read but absolutely POWERFUL & LIFE CHANGING. This book has changed my marriage my relationships the way I think, everything. I will never stop referencing it or talking about it. Sometimes people are stunned by my behavior, by my response to things, and they ask me how I’m like that. And every time I realize: ITS BC OF THIS FREAKING BOOK. I’ve seen peoples lives change completely just from reading the first few chapters. I’m like trust me honey keep going it gets even better. Danny Silk, idk what you doing out here but keep doing it. It’s Spirit breathed. Absolutely simply phenomenal. Please read it and then buy 100 copies for everyone you know.

United States on Sep 18, 2023

Phyllis Fetzer: The concepts about communication and relationships in this book are sometimes very basic (e.g., "I statements"), yet presented very well. And some of the concepts are absolutely wonderful in the way they present ways to live well and love deeply those in one's closest circle. The book is useful for everyone, not just married couples and parents. I am a widow of many years, and found this book very valuable for my relationship with my almost 40-year old son, and with my sister and her family, and other relationships as well. I'm going to go back through the book at least once a year to keep the concepts fresh and in the forefront of my mind.

United States on May 27, 2023

Annie Kay Grady: KYLO has brought the love scriptures to life in giving key ways to live them out in life, to exemplify it.

My approach to relationships has changed in many ways.
1-I see the importance of value and honor of others as created in the image of God. God created them to be powerful and make choices.
If He thought they were worth dying for why would I see them any differently just because they make choices, live lives, or belief ways that are differently than I do? Understanding more clearly that this does not mean that I will keep someone abusive or disrespectful in my closest relationships . There may be times they lose their close place in my life from their choices, but my love, honor and value for them, myself and others is to remain strong regardless of how they treat me or the messes they make.
2- I am able to approach others with healthy boundaries and not be afraid or their agreement or acceptance of me or my family.I will allow my husband and children to be powerful and set healthy boundaries with others in how they manage their “yes” and “no” even if that means they don’t want to do something that I would like to do
.3- I have also grown in my...

United States on May 18, 2023

The happy one: This is the most powerful relationship book I have ever read.

I experienced different types of abuse as a child and so as an adult my relationships have all been really messed up.

Danny has given me the skills to openly communicate my needs to another, using the language of respect. He teaches how to rescue a difficult conversation and even more important than that, I have now realised that I don’t have to tolerate disrespect from others (even if they are my nearest and dearest). No respect means no conversation!

I am definitely Committed to emerging as a more powerful person within my relationships, having read this.

Thank you so much Danny! 🙏🏾

United Kingdom on Jul 29, 2020

Stephen W. Hiemstra ﻦ: The intrusion of technology into our lives has increased the time spent interacting with machines and reduced the time spent interacting with people. Because developing healthy relationships take time, the reallocation of time away from development of healthy relationships has contributed to declining civility and increasing violence, both at home and in public places. Against this rather bleak environment, an emerging role for the church in these postmodern times has been to teach the basic relational and social skills that can no longer be assumed to exist: enter Danny Silk.

In his book, Keep Your Love On, Danny Silk starts by writing:

“I wrote this book to help people build, strengthen, and heal their relational connections.” (11)

Silk sees three themes as components of healthy relationships—connection, communication, and setting boundaries (12)—and he structures his book around these three themes. Let me turn to each of these themes in turn.

Connection. Silk starts his discussion of connection by distinguishing powerful people from powerless people, writing:

“You need to be a powerful person. Powerful people take responsibility for...

United States on Aug 08, 2016

Beatrix Friedrich: Dieses Buch ist ein Schatz für alle, die in gesunden Beziehungen leben wollen, egal in welchen Bereichen. Der Autor zeigt die Zusammenhänge auf, die zum Erkalten und Zerbrechen unserer Beziehungen führen, ebenso wie die Wege daraus. Er macht deutlich, wieviel das mit uns selbst zu tun hat und mit den Haltungen und Entscheidungen unseres eigenen Herzens. Und er ermutigt jeden Leser, Verantwortung für sich selbst und die Beziehungen in seinem Umfeld zu übernehmen, immer mit dem Ziel, die Liebesflamme im eigenen Herzen brennen zu lassen, sich verletzbar zu machen und nicht abhängig von dem Verhalten der anderen uns gegenüber.
Ich habe das Buch auf Englisch gelesen, weil ich nicht warte wollte, bie es ins Deutsche übersetzt wird. Es enthält einen wahren Schatz an Weisheit und Tiefe, in einfacher Form geschrieben, leicht verständlich und nicht langweilig!!
Das Beste für alle deutschen Leser ist, dass es seit November in Deutsch erhältlich ist unter dem Titel " Lass deine Liebe an ". Das Cover ist ientisch.
Viel Freude und Erkenntnis beim Lesen!!

Germany on Nov 05, 2014

Jovan Lenhard: When my fiancé and I started dating, our relationship was extremely unhealthy. One of us was raised as a victim and the other as a helper. As a result, I always wanted to dump my problems and responsibilities on my girlfriend, and first she gladly took them, only to realize that soon she would be crushed under the weight. So, we both wanted to work and improve on our relationship, and were so happy when we started reading KYLO. I cannot thank Danny Silk enough for this book. I've read most of his other books and they are great, but this one I'd say, is by far the best. Everyone who is in any kind of relationship should read it at least once in their life.

Through this book, Danny Silk gave us great tools:
1. to become powerful people who tell themselves what to do and what not,
2. he explains the five love-languages in a way that helped us use them to seek connection and remove stress and anxiety from the other person,
3. he reveals how a heart-to-heart connection is so much more important than the need to agree,
4. to see the value of healthy boundaries and how to set them properly.

We found out, as we practiced these tools they have shown to be...

Germany on May 07, 2014

ChrisB: This book is an inspired and brilliant tool to help you to tackle the deep issues affecting all relationships and to help build healthier ones. It is also, in my opinion, the start of a revolution. The use of control and manipulation is so deeply entrenched in Western culture that most of the time it seems to us to be utterly appropriate and reasonable. We were likely all raised by parents, taught by teachers, pastored by ministers and governed by politicians who believed that it was their duty to control us. Whether it was used with subtlety and within the parameters of the law, or whether it was outrageously abusive, control and manipulation have sunk their teeth into our deepest and most treasured parts and are actually ripping the heart out of our God-dreamed, God-given, God-paid for freedom to be who we are and let others do the same. This book is wonderful, but it's not for the faint-hearted. Personally, it has set me on a journey to change. I suspect it is going to take some time to even come close to where I would like to be, but I am so grateful and would whole-heartedly recommend both the book and the journey.

United Kingdom on Jun 21, 2013